I had the weirdest dream this morning. My ex and my current boyfriend and our families all lived in the same huge house. And for some reason at one point I was downstairs (which if you went through a room, or out a door turned into some sort of shopping center) looking to talk to my ex, but he was too quick and went back upstairs, where I found him in bed with my current boyfriend. Not like that! But they were both laying in my bed and my youngest son was in his crib nearby and when I went in I was obviously confused.

These two men hate each other. Not just the normal you’re-my-ex-girlfriend’s-first-real-love/you’re-my-girl’s-ex-and-I’m-jealous-of-you hate. At one point my ex tried to put a restraining order on my current boyfriend due to a verbal argument that got heated. So you can see why I would be a little… perplexed to find the two so close together hanging out.

I can’t remember what I said, by I’m sure it was something along the lines of “what the fuck is going on?” And I don’t remember the response, but even as disturbed as I was I took the response and left, mosied down the hall to my ex’s room. Where my other two children were sleeping quietly, and I had the opportunity to pilfer through his things. I didn’t find anything but eventually he came into the room. I started laughing because he was wearing a yellow fleece vest and numerous rings on his fingers. In reality these are items he wouldn’t wear. He’s a bit of a redneck. His wardrobe consists of Air pants and sweaters/t-shirts. So I questioned him about it, especially the one that was sliver with a round top that said “I love you” in purple on a white background. Well, questioned isn’t correct. I ridiculed him and asked him if it was from his current girlfriend (who thankfully was absent from the dream). I don’t think I got a response.

And than we talked about money. And that was it. Hmmmmmm.

I’m wondering what it means that I found the two in bed together. Is it my mind comparing the two on the many similarities? Is my mind telling me the two are basically the same, even though they go about things in very different ways? Am I telling myself to leave the two of them behind and move on?

Posted: November 28th, 2007 under dreams.
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